Tips on How to Put Him in the Mood

Truth be told, getting a man in the mood is usually as easy as pie. However, other men are less resistant to arousal, creating a difficult task for their partners. Regardless of what type of man you are with, you may be in need of a few new ideas, and rightfully so. Even the most exciting sex lives can become monotonous, making it a great time to introduce a sexy new routine.

Fantasies and Role Play

It’s rare to find a man who doesn’t have fantasy. Not surprisingly, you may be a bit apprehensive about asking your man to divulge his innermost longings, for fear of what you may get yourself involved in. However, acting out the fantasy is not always a necessity. In fact, many men become aroused simply by discussing their deepest desires with their partner, even if there is no expectation of the fantasy being fulfilled. Don’t be afraid to create a sharing session between you and your partner, but be ready to divulge a secret fantasy of your own, if asked.

Dirty Talk

If you’re a dirty talk virgin, it may be time to take the plunge. Most men love to hear their partners talk to them in a sexy voice, walking through fantasies or making reference to their wants and needs. By telling your partner what spot to touch, where to go next, and what you’d like to do to him, you’re sure to drive him crazy. Dirty talk is not as hard as you may think. Start off slowly, by informing him when something feels good. Move up to subtle directions but be sure to keep it pleasurable and not forceful. Barking out orders will destroy the mood and make your partner feel inadequate, so it’s important to compliment him while making suggestions.

Intimate Touch

Sure, women don’t always get it, but for whatever reason, many men are turned on by watching their partner touch themselves. This of course calls for a certain comfort level within the relationship, and often leads to instant arousal. Sometimes subtlety is key, so it may be better to move your hand up against his thigh and let him ask you what you’re doing, instead of being obvious about it.

Get Naked

There’s no question that nakedness usually equals arousal. Take your time and tease your partner, starting with his mouth and neck and gradually moving your way down. Don’t rush the moment – begging is definitely underestimated. Tease him to the point where he can’t stand it anymore and you’re sure to endure a night of supercharged lovemaking.

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