10 Signs She's Not Satisfied

You are as hot as a Sahara desert but it seems that your wife is the Ice Queen of the Antarctic. You are raging for sex but you’ve noticed that your wife is more tired than the usual and has developed this fascination for sex toys. Is it possible that she’s not satisfied? It is more likely that your wife is not if this question has crossed your mind. To be more certain, you have to be observant for the following signs:

1. You catch her going on a solo.  Most women pleasure themselves more frequently than the usual if you did not deliver, meaning, you are not able to provide her with her sexual needs.  You must start asking her how she wants to be touched and make her feel it is a pleasure to satisfy her.
2. She is working much harder during the day and drinks a lot more before going to bed. It’s a classic evading tactic. Being too tired or too drunk is her way to avoid having sex with you as you turn the lights off.
3. Her weight and appetite increases, for food, that is. Women usually use food to feed their starving sex life.
4. Your wife becomes a compulsive buyer. Sometimes, women resort to compulsive shopping to satisfy their need for sex. It’s a defense mechanism, really. Shopped goods are substitutions of her sexual frustrations.
5. She has become a rebellious and detached mother. If your wife refuses to take care of the kids, she is asking for attention.
6. She has turned into a sarcastic mean girl as you hang out with friends, slipping out comments about her sexual dissatisfaction. Most women cannot directly tell their partners that their needs and fantasies in bed are not met.
7. Your wife becomes more fascinated of sex toys or has started watching adult videos. It could only mean that your old routine does not deliver the goods anymore. It’s a sign telling you that new, creative and refreshing techniques will do the work.
8. Your wife is not receptive during sex. It’s like having sex with an inanimate object. Changes in body language are obvious signs that she is not happy.
9. She begins to take care of herself more, dressing up with sexier clothes and wearing a sensuous perfume.  Getting a make-over or a total overhaul in her wardrobe is an attempt to catch your attention.
10. She’s getting more critical of you from every corner. It’s another sign that she is not getting the attention and satisfaction she needs in the bedroom.

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