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My girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend If your girlfriend has cheated on you with your best friend, take a deep breath, then talk to your best friend about it first. You've probably known your best friend longer, so he's the one you should be worried about the most. Having your girlfriend cheat on you with someone you don't know can be hard, but cheating with your best friend can be devastating. Your best friend is someone you trust, and by him going behind your back with your girlfriend, is a sign that he doesn't care much about your emotions, and only thinks of himself. Have a long conversation with your best friend. Tell him how much pain he's caused you, and he needs to do something about it. You may feel like you don't ever want to talk to him, which is fine to feel that way. Why have a friend when you can't trust them? Your best friend isn't the only one in the wrong. Your girlfriend should not have cheated on you with your best friend, and she knows that sleeping with him is the ultimate act of betrayal. But, she's just like your best friend, she's not thinking about how you feel, she's only looking out for herself. You should think about whether or not you want to continue a romantic relationship with your girlfriend. Consider all the options (separation, counseling, and breaking up). Whatever you decide, if she truly loves you, she should understand your decision. If you decide to stay with your girlfriend keep in mind that she may cheat again. It is important for each of you to talk about your relationship and discover the reason why she cheated. Having your girlfriend cheat on you with your best friend is not the end of the world. Girlfriends come and go, and if she cheats on you, then it's better to know. If your best friend can't understand the trouble he's caused, then it's in your best interest to let him.
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