My Girlfriend Spends a lot of Time With Her Ex If your girlfriend spends time with her ex, you should be a very concerned boyfriend. You may think that just by her telling you that she is actually spending quality time with her ex, that you should trust her and that just by telling you about him, you should think that it could be worst by her not telling you. If your girlfriend is spending any kind of time with her ex, you need to talk to her about it immediately. The only reason she should be talking to her ex, is if she has personal belongings that he still has, or they were mutual friends before they started dating. If they were friends before they started dating, then it's going to be hard for you to get her to stop talking to him. But, understand, that she might not be telling you the truth about them being friends before they dated. She could just be telling you that, so you won't feel like he's just a random boyfriend that she still has feelings for. If your girlfriend spends a lot of time with her ex, ask if you can hang out with them. If she tells you no, then you should really think about being with her, because she's hiding something. She should have no problem with the three of you hanging out if nothing is going on. If you're having a hard time with your girlfriend still spending time with her ex, you should just be straight forward and tell her. If she gets upset, then there's probably a chance that they still have some kind of love connection going on. Remember, that just because your girlfriend tells you she doesn't have feelings towards her ex, doesn't mean that he's still not interested in her. If her ex knows that she has a boyfriend, he might not say anything about his feelings towards her, fearing she might stop hanging around him. If your girlfriend and her ex is close, you should try to be friends with him too. You can learn a lot about their relationship before and after their break up. If you can get close to the ex boyfriend, you have a better chance at finding out what's really going on between them. If you can handle your girlfriend hanging out with her ex, then she should understand that you are willing to do whatever it takes to be with her. You have to ask yourself, would it be right if you still hung out with your ex girlfriend while you are with your current girlfriend? If the answer is yes, it would be wrong, then apply the same answer to your girlfriend and her ex boyfriend.
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